Towanda has two meanings ‘peaceful resting place’, ‘many waters’ or ‘rushing waters’. The latter water meaning is an Osage Indian word. I use it as Fannie Flagg wrote it in Fried Green Tomatoes – as the battle cry of Idgie’s alter-ego, an Amazon woman.

This coming week has seven full days as do all weeks. But this will be my first full normal week in a while. I work all five days, I have yoga class, I have a friend’s housewarming open house, and I have some medical appointments to take my mother to. And writing group six of those mornings. Blissful normalcy.
I am always ready for this week after the holidays. In the weeks leading up to the festivities of yule, there are office parties, time off, usually a sick day, and a frenzy of work. It’s stress added to an already stressful life, overwhelming. The return to normalcy provokes a psychological ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.
I say normal week. My normal and yours are probably different. Yes, I still have no water. Yes, I am still inordinately stressed, and yes, my to-do list is 9 miles long and growing but these are practically norms now. I wrote earlier this week that I need routine in my life. And, boy, do I ever this year.
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