Today is officially Veteran’s Day. We observed it yesterday so working folk could have their paid day off, but today is actually the day. It was originally Armistice Day – the ceasefire on November 11, 1918 that officially ended World War I or what was then known as the Great War.
Veteran’s Day was always a happy holiday for me. It was the day after the Marine Corps Ball and my dad had the day off after a night of celebrating his calling in life. He was a Marine through and through until the day he died.
I was a Daddy’s girl through and through, but four tours of Vietnam took a toll. For more than four years between my ages of 7 and 14, he was away from home at war. In the in-between years, he was home and I was the apple of his eye. When he was finally done with Vietnam, my dad spent his energy keeping his PTSD from annihilating him. He had no more energy for me. When my son came along and put the light back in my dad’s eyes, I was both grateful and jealous. But he had something to live for once again. The two of them had an epic love story.
Continue reading